After marriage, your whole life changes. You have to mold according your partner’s nature. You have to bear their bad habits. You have to like their likes and dislike their dislikes. You have to treat their families as your own.
Being single and independent is what everyone wants. After getting out of any relationship, you may feel lonely, but your life will be free of stresses and you will be surrounded by happy people all the way. Being single isn’t a bad thing, because for some people, it’s the most happiest part of their life. Many researchers have found that single life has lots of benefits that marriage doesn’t.
So I guess being single is better than being married, here are the reasons why Single Life is better than married life.
You are rich and living a more meaningful life than the married counterparts. Hurrah for your single life!
1. Single Life – Decision Making
Before marriage, you decide how you spend your life. You are like a free bird, but marriage is like a cage. You don’t get to decide everything; the dominating spouse does that like most of the husbands in Pakistan. With all the free time you have, enjoy your life, start volunteering, get a job, eat according to your wish, get out of the house and start making a decision for you. So enjoy the Single Life!
2. Weight Flux
People after getting married put a lot of weight, not only women but men too. Single people are healthy as they have time to look after themselves. Did you know single and divorced people exercise more? The reason is simple. They still have people to impress, but after marriage you will not be able to stay away from getting a lot of weight.
3. You Stay Connected To Everyone
That is a downside of being married; you lose connection with your friends, colleagues and even with your parents. Whereas single people hang out with their friends, live with their families and go out with their colleagues because they have time for them, unlike the married people who have to look after their spouse and kids.
4. No More Flirting Or Checking Out Random People
When you are married, you are bound to a single person. You are even scared to look at a woman. You can’t flirt with other people or sometimes can’t even talk to people of opposite gender and that is the best part of being single that you are not bound to anyone. So, you can talk or flirt with anyone you want. Start liking your crush’s pictures and posts because no one has a check on you.
5. No More Friend Request and Messages On Facebook
As soon as you change your relationship status on Facebook from single to married, you stop getting messages and friend requests from people. Married life: 1, social life: 0, Or as soon as a woman wears a ring, guys stop approaching her. Stay single and keep your eyes secretly on other people because single life is much adventurous than the married one.
6. The Freedom
When you are single, you are not accountable to anyone, you get to choose whatever you want to do. You don’t have a spouse to keep a check on you. You can do stupid stuff without any tension. You don’t have to worry that you have a wife home waiting for you or you don’t have to worry that you have to cook food before your husband gets home. Just think about it, no need to check in and you can do what you want and when you want. Freedom in everything!
7. More Sleep
When you are married, you have to wake up early to go to the office or to get your children or husband ready. It is a life time duty. You don’t get holidays, but when you are single, there is no responsibility on you. You can sleep and wake up whenever you want. There is not a strict mother-in-law to tease you about your sleeping habits.
8. No Responsibility
Being single, you don’t have to worry about a job or about running your house or about your children’s education. You can be careless, as much as you want. In this case, you will have time to do things other than the responsibilities. You can learn any other language, can take the baking classes, can learn the photography or other than this, you can date whomever you want. One, two or many dates!
Being in a relationship should not be the ultimate goal of your personal life. In fact, you would love to stay happily single than to stay in the wrong relationship. When you will embrace your single life, you will automatically start to enjoy your own company. So explore your independent life, learn to stay comfortable being single and stay sexy.